Over the last few months, I’ve started using this trick with my To-Do list; I give every task a point value and I do 10 points of stuff each week night. This is kind of arbitrary, but I take the number of minutes to complete a task and divide by 10. If the task is kind of fun, I cut that number in half. But if the task is pretty terrible, I double it. Neutral tasks are unmodified.
So biking is something I know I should do and it takes about 40 minutes, so it should be a 4 but I like doing it so I call it a 2. On the other hand cleaning out the sink only takes 10 minutes so it should be a 1 but I hate it, so it’s a 2. Laundry takes 20 (active) minutes and it’s kind of neutral, so it stays a 2. That’s how I do it, you should find something that works for you.
Everyday, I sit down with my planner and look at the stuff that has to be done that night (appointments, high-priority tasks) and anything that’s really pressing (grocery shopping, laundry) and put those things down and give them points as described above. It that total is over 10, I start cutting the least important things. If the total is under 10, I look at my backlog and find one or more tasks to fill that gap. My backlog is just where I write down everything that doesn’t have a specific time-frame, but I want to get done someday.
This system has a few advantages that reduce the psychic load of figuring out what to do and doing it. It lets you know when you’ve given yourself enough to do – once I have 10 points and I stop planning and start working on stuff. It gives me confidence that when I put something down as “I will do this tonight”, I’m reasonably confident I will do it. And when I put something on my backlog, I know I’ll get to it when I can. Because I’m doing stuff every night, I make progress at a steady rate. But because I’m not doing too much, I don’t burn out. It helps with planning and can justify putting off a task – not procrastinating – but saying “I have four things that really need my attention tonight, so cleaning the kitchen can wait a day”.
The best part of this system is Being Done. You’ll never actually be done, there’s always more to do. But you’ll get that 10th point and you’ll get the Being Done feeling – this day has been productive and if I sit down and play Minecraft for the next 3 hours, I’ll still go to bed feeling accomplished. And wanting that feeling keeps me excited each night to get through my list quickly so I can relax and enjoy my evening without worry about everything else on my list.
